Who holds power in my life?

I hold power in my own life. I figure that in three and a half years I'm going to have to take control of my own life anyways so why not start now and have my parents around for the decisions that are to big for a fourteen year old to take. I don't like people going around telling me what to do like they are the ones living my life. My parents also see the situation the same way I do, they believe that i am a young adult and have to start taking responsibility for my actions. They still make sure that I stay out of trouble and help me with the big decisions. Therefore I try to keep my parents trust, so I am able to go out with my friends and have fun. Although most teens that are around 20 years old and are out living in tiny houses and don't have any money are usually the ones where there parents gave them whatever they wanted and did everything for them, so my parents are just preparing me for the real world out there.