why arguements go bad

When people get mad they say and do things that they later regret when there friends with that person again. I learned a lot of information on dealing with fights. Most of the time when friends fight they like to make the other person feel bad, as if that made them win the fight. but really it just makes them look immature and the other person feel bad. so you can try one of these helpful tips. There's three different kind of ways to solve your problem. First, there's the loud way, thats where you make a fool of your your self and you yell and scream untill someone gives up and leaves and the problem never gets solved. Then there's also the soft way, thats where they both just walk away like it doesn't bother them untill it just builds up. Or last there's the think and share, this is where you both talk about what's on your mind and usually its a miss under standing and eventually you both will rather get over it and go your own ways with no hard feeling or get over it and become friends